In June of 2009, I wrote a post called ‘When things fall apart’. It’s the title of a Pema Chodron book, which Jamine lent me. Here is the quote I used:
“Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing. We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don’t really get solved. They come together and they&nb…